When borrowing your aunt's drill as her PCA worker, what is the best approach?

Having an open conversation about borrowing your aunt's drill is the best approach because it establishes clear communication and respect for her property. This method ensures that your aunt feels valued and involved in the decision-making process. By discussing your intention, you create an opportunity for her to share her feelings about lending the drill, including any concerns she might have regarding its use or condition.

This approach fosters trust and strengthens your relationship with your aunt, which is especially important in a PCA worker-client dynamic. It also minimizes misunderstandings, as both parties can express their needs and expectations openly.

In contrast, assuming she will say yes could lead to misunderstandings, as it bypasses the important step of communication and may lead to feelings of resentment if she feels her property is taken for granted. Borrowing the drill without asking is disrespectful and could damage the relationship, as it disregards her ownership and personal boundaries. Asking casually in passing may not convey the seriousness of your request and could leave her feeling unimportant in the decision, as it doesn’t provide space for a thorough discussion.